Below, you will find samples of work from the 2002-2003 Human Relations
classes. There will be 3 sections this coming year and some new titles
added to our portfolio. Keep you eyes open for some of their work..
Winston
Churchill once said, "To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change
often." Coming from a man who was constantly tested by the events of WWII,
Churchill proved he could adjust, adapt and change as necessary. He believed
that change was vital, no matter the inconvenience.
The
story, Who Moved My Cheese by Spencer Johnson, is about four characters
and how they react to change. There are those who accommodate to change
easily, and those who take a very long time adjusting to new things.
If I were to classify myself
into one of these categories, I would say I generally welcome change.
Welcoming change would make me the mouse, Sniff. Sniff uses a trail and
error method, and uses his nose to smell the general direction of the cheese.
Scurry, the other mouse, just races ahead.
There are
also two 'little people' in the story, who are the size of a mouse, but
act as humans; their names are Hem and Haw. Hem and Haw have a difficult
time adapting to change. I am usually a bit more cautious when something
new is brought up. But I'm not all that different from Haw.
Sometimes
if a situation is puzzling, and even though I know what to do, I will be
reluctant to change it. Such as the time I first got my own room. It was
back in fifth grade, and I had shared a room with my older sister for as
long as I could remember. My parents knew I wanted my own space so I would
get the extra room as my bedroom. At first I was excited and glad to have
my own place. After I got settled in, I noticed that things weren't as
I expected. I never thought I would miss sharing a room with someone, but
since that was all I had known it was difficult. I tried everything
I could to like being there, but it wasn’t working, and I began to wonder
why not just move back. I would then tell myself just to give it time and
soon it would get easier. All of that was simpler said than done, but in
the long run things did improve. I am glad I was able to adapt, because
who knows what things would be like if I still had to share a room!
Throughout
Who Moved My Cheese, one of the characters writes various sayings
on a wall. Most of the writings are a reflection on what his experience
with cheese has given him. One thing he writes is, "Adapt to change quickly;
the quicker you let go of old cheese, the sooner you can enjoy new cheese.
" The mice are able to change quickly and are able to enjoy their 'new
cheese' sooner, while the little people aren't sure what to do and remain
confused.
Hem and
Haw are probably afraid that by changing things will get worse. Sometimes
in order to make things better; you have to risk what you already have.
Samuel Johnson once said, "Change is not made without inconvenience, even
from worse to better." Adjusting and adapting to new things is hard, but
if you were to keep on going with things the same way they always were,
what would you accomplish? Such as when Hem and Haw found out their cheese
in Cheese Station C disappeared. Now that there wasn’t any cheese left,
what was there to do? Sitting around and dreaming about new cheese wasn't
going to help at all, but at the time it seemed most practical.
The
vast majority or high school students I talk to, say that their favorite
memory from the Middle School was their 8th grade year. My 8th grade year
was also one of the most fun year in school. I had a good group of friends,
neat classes and various things to do. I had finally gained the self-confidence
I had lacked the years before. With awards ranging from academics to music
to volleyball, it had been a successful year.
During
the middle of the year, one of my friends told me she was moving, which
was hard on my whole group. We decided to not dwell on it all the time,
and would face it when the time came. We later learned that another of
our friends, who we were just beginning to know also would be leaving.
He had been a friend of our group, and the fact we were just getting to
know him and he left was another gloomy thing to add to the list. Just
when I thought things were going to settle down, another person I knew
moved to Nevada. That was a shock to all of us, since it was very far away.
He had also been friends with the other two that had left. This then effected
our group tremendously. The changes with people going away were something
I thought I could deal with, but later had a very difficult time. My parents
picked Evansville because it was a nice place to raise kids, and they didn’t
intend on moving. I didn’t expect anyone else I knew to move either, so
some of it came as a surprise.
My
freshman year I was pretty unhappy and kept looking back and always wishing
some day I would wake up and I would be back in 8th grade with the friends
I used to have and all the experiences still there. I missed out on what
was happening then, and although I do not regret any of it, I could have
been a little more positive and welcomed new things. This really awakened
in me the need to move on when things change. There is no point on dwelling
on the past if it will not help now or in the future. It is instead important
to look back and be glad that you are able to make the memories you did,
instead of not at all.
I
like to listen to music and while I love Vivaldi and Mozart's work, I have
a certain respect for Beethoven. As most people know Beethoven lost his
hearing at about the age of 32. This was an immense change for him, as
you might be able to tell in his music that he wrote around that period,
most of which was gloomy and sort of depressive. To me Beethoven is a great
inspiration. One of his most famous works 'Ode to Joy', was composed when
his hearing was gone. With hard work and determination, he was able to
remember back to what the pitches sounded like. This demonstrates one of
the sayings Haw had written on the wall. "Change, move with the cheese."
If things get tough, as they did for Beethoven, don’t give up. Keep going,
move with the changes. Imagine if Beethoven had given up right away after
his hearing began to worsen, we would be missing out on some great music.
Whether
it is the little things in life that change, such as a new routine or something
big such as someone you love passing away, it is important to adjust to
the different things that happen. Each event in life can teach you something
if you are willing to learn from it. As Haw wrote, "Enjoy Change! Savor
the adventure and taste of new change." There is so much out there that
you could be kept from if you are not willing to change or try new things.
If you have the opportunity take it, the only way things can improve is
for them to be changed. It is also important not to over complicate things,
instead, make your life simple. Change lies in you. As one president once
put it, "Change is the law of life and those who look only to the past
or present are certain to miss the future."